How To Win Her Back – With These Killer Psychological Mind Moves

Oct 29, 2009

Have you recently broke up and you've reached the conclusion you can't live without her? Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don't count. What does count is you getting her back.

Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. Take the employee of the month competition. You don't win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.

She returns your call without you even asking
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren't bills! So you send her a letter telling her how good things are for you right now. And you also say you want to thank her.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She gets curios about the "thank you" bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.

Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.

I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.

Play on her good memories
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.

When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her mind will start to think you when she thinks about or hears that song because it was on in the background of your phone conversation. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.

Curious jealousy
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

Don't go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it's not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. Of course you don't want to be using them just willy nilly.

You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. If you don't have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.

You can find out what I think are the best couple of all round systems that will show you exactly how to win her back at my website ...

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